Here are tips 10 to 12 from Shakti Durga’s 12 Top Tips
This is the final instalment of Shakti Durga’s suggestions on how to make divorce more bearable, helping to cultivate a new and different relationship moving forward:
10. Forgive them: Everyone makes mistakes, and we can learn to be forgiving. Forgiveness is really for us, as a lack of forgiveness gives us a black weight to carry in our hearts, which only ever hurts us. It is not about excusing them, it is about forgiving them. Not forgiving is like taking poison and expecting them to die. Spit it out, and let it go. Forgiveness is complete when we feel love for them again.
11. Knit a tribe: Your children now have two families who love them. Support them in their relationships with both wings of their family. They may have a family forest instead of a tree, even so there are more people who can love and care for them. If your kids are young, recount to them each night by name how many people love them, say: Aunty Sue loves you, and Grandpa loves you……..Ensure you cover both sides of the family.
12. Cut the cords of connection: When people are in relationships their energy fields merge. Sometimes big fat cords of energy join us together and activate whenever we think or speak of each other. These can feed conflict and cause the multiplication of stress, anxiety, fears and so on. Cut the lines of energy using energetic healing techniques, and see a healer to clean the turmoil out of your energetic field. You will feel incredibly different as you ignite your spirit.
Shakti Durga is teaching Empowering Relationships 1 on 13 & 14 September and Empowering Relationships 2 on 27 & 28 September at the Abode of Peace. Empowering Relationships gives you a toolbox to deal with the most difficult situations in relationships, enabling you to love yourself. To find out more, or to register email: firstname.lastname@example.org